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Marni

United States

June 23, 2009

There is a saying in America that goes ... "Always a bridesmaid, never a bride."  It is a saying supposedly uttered by lamenting women everywhere as they are in yet another wedding party as a beautiful bridesmaid but not a beautiful bride.  Is being a bride supposed to be the ultimate achievement for a woman?  As someone who has been both a bridesmaid and a bride, I beg to differ.

In America I believe the stats are that one in three marriages ends in divorce.  I think people, women in particular, are more excited about weddings than they are about marriages.   I have made that mistake and to that I say, never again.

So this summer as I go to yet another wedding I will sit and root for the happy couple because, despite what you may think,  I am a believer in love.  I will be grateful that I am a mere spectator and not  in front of everyone in uncomfortable shoes trying to suck in my gut and look "perfect."  I will sit back and relax because I am there to support the couple as people embracing a future of uncertainty.  I will look at the bride and smile and hope that she is one lady beating the odds.  I  know it isn't romantic, it's just reality.

 

06:54 PM Jul 02 2009

Curitis

Curitis
China

"Being a bride,never a bridesmaid for ever".It's popular in China.

May 11, 2009


I am still shocked by the fact that Depeche Mode, a band that I have loved for longer than some of you have been alive, is doing its first ever arena tour.  It seems surprising to me that a band of their caliber is doing its first arena tour ever, but perhaps I misjudged their stature.  I'll admit I haven't been as up to speed on their more current efforts , but whenever I listen to them I am instantly transported back to my teenage bedroom listening to DM on cassette tape and dreaming of what is to be. I associate them so much with a certain period of my life that they are an incredibly nostalgic band for me.
 
I am a fan of their earlier work, meaning most of the albums that came out in the 80's.  Their first release, Speak and Spell, has what I'd probably consider my favorite Depeche Mode song.  Hint: It's the one for which this blog is named after.  I would have to say that my favorite albums are Music for the Masses and Black Celebration. 
 
So here's to Depeche Mode for getting me through heartache, break -ups, crushes, and changes.  For a band that has been around for nearly 30 years, it seems to be about time that they synth-rock the arena world.
  
 
 

07:35 AM Jun 04 2009

hazamov

hazamov
Russian Federation

You have a cute voice

01:24 AM May 31 2009

gk1
India

hai

how are u u r friend fship ilikk

 

12:06 PM May 23 2009

mir

mir
Russian Federation

i've got the same feelings about DM...though i never was a big fan of them, they are defenitely assosiated with the time when i was younger...my student years...and, yep, there were tape cassettes Smile

03:59 PM May 21 2009

alexhubei
China

hi

April 13, 2009

My conversation with Devan was very near and dear to my heart. I believe that the profession of teaching is one of the most important professions there is. There really are very few jobs that have such a global effect. So I have been pondering this question, What makes a good teacher good? I think it has to do with being passionate about your subject matter as Devan mentioned in our conversation, but it also has to do with truly loving to work with students. 

I work with six and seven year olds and while they are adorable, sometimes it sucks the life out of me. Some days I think I will never be able to do my job again. Then I go back and I will have had some small moment of connecting with a child that makes all the difference in the world. The fact of the matter is, it is those small moments of helping a child understand a concept or seeing them make gains in their reading or speech that are so gratifying. They make up for all of the challenging aspects of teaching.

Now, I know that college professors are a different beast altogether and most of you reading this are at that point in your academic career.  For a moment now go back and think about all of the teachers you had growing up. If you had a lot of good teachers throughout your formative years, then you probably have a much easier time succeeding in your continuing education. I also bet that most of your good teachers really loved working with kids.

I'd like to close by mentioning one of my favorite bumper stickers that I see on cars here in the U.S..   It says, "If you can read this, thank a teacher." Teachers are a vital part of society and they are very under appreciated. So here in my blog, I'd like to take a minute to salute all of the good teachers out there for doing great work.

03:57 AM May 24 2009

Mynote

Mynote
Thailand

Salute to all the good teachers.:) Thanks for the blog now I have something to think about:)